with me<\/em>?\u201d<\/p>\n\u201cIt\u2019s not just about it being a unique idea,\u201d she says. \u201cOftentimes, people can\u2019t answer the \u2018with me\u2019 question.\u201d To answer it, evaluate your cultural relevancy, your community, and your consistency.<\/p>\n
And think of it as a lens. When you focus your ideas through \u201cwhy me,\u201d you can frame your deliverables in a way that makes it \u201cas easy as possible to get buy-in.\u201d<\/p>\n
Lesson 2: Build trust before opening wallets.<\/h2>\n
Trust was a through-line in our conversation, both interpersonally and between brands and audience. Bembury-Coakley credits much of her success to having had amazing advocates throughout her career \u2014 but “it\u2018s double-sided,\u201d she says. \u201cIt comes with the very heavy responsibility of making sure that you\u2019re also fulfilling your promises on the back end.\u201d<\/p>\n
In other words: Trust is not <\/em>something that Shareese Bembury-Coakley takes lightly.<\/p>\nShe carries this responsibility into her work with brands and partnerships. I ask her what makes her say \u201cno\u201d to a CultureCon partnership, and she immediately says, \u201canything that would betray the trust we\u2019ve built with our community.\u201d<\/p>\n
Trust is the underlying reason that Activation Alley is so popular \u2014 brand activations \u201caren\u2019t a necessary evil that you\u2019re connecting with for a free water bottle,\u201d Bembury-Coakley says. They\u2019re \u201ca testament to how authentically our partners have showed up in the past.\u201d<\/p>\n
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The secret behind the Activation Alley hype is pretty simple, really: Consistency.<\/p>\n
Lesson 3: Creators have audiences. Brands have bosses.<\/h2>\n
\u201cCreators should always remember that their point of contact has a boss,\u201d Bembury-Coakley says. \u201cUsually the person they\u2018re talking to is a stakeholder \u2014 but it\u2019s generally not the key<\/em> stakeholder.\u201d<\/p>\n\u201cAnything that you can do to be a resource to make it easier on your partner is going to increase the likelihood of them working with you again,\u201d she says. \u201cI think sometimes you look at the brands as a whole, but they are [made up of] individuals.\u201d It\u2019s easy for creators to forget that \u201cfiguring how to navigate these brands internally in a way that makes it easy on them\u201d \u2014 and that makes them more likely to want to keep working with you.<\/p>\n
And on the flip side, \u201cthe brand should always remember why they wanted to work with that creator to begin with.\u201d What often happens, she says, is that a creator\u2019s content might be slightly controversial, but once they\u2019ve signed with a brand, the brand \u201cwants them to be extremely brand-safe in a way that would be betraying their audience.\u201d<\/p>\n
See? It all comes down to trust.<\/p>\n
Masters in Marketing was a proud sponsor of this year\u2019s CultureCon, which took place October 4 – 5, 2025.<\/em><\/p>\n